One of my best friends took a teaching job in Dubai a year ago.  He’s had to “play it straight” and keep his Queer identity invisible in order to keep his job.  He’s related to me how hard it is for guys who can’t or don’t conform to stereotypically masculine behavior to avoid being harassed by locals and officials.  However, underneath these social codes, there exists an underground world of men who have sex with men.  Nadya Labi’s article for the Atlantic investigates “a society where everyone, homosexual and otherwise, lives in the closet.”